I personally like getting hammered out of my head. I see no point in drinking without doing until you pass out. People have a problem with that. One perception of it is that the drunk needs to be taken cared of. For those who want to help the drunk, do it without holding it against the drunk. If you want to effing carry the person home and hold his head while he is puking his guts out, do it with an open heart. Do not put up with the s**t if you are going to have it against the drunk when he sobers up in the morning. Do not help the drunk if you think it makes you look like an idiot. Just stay with the audience at the sidelines and watch if that makes you less of an idiot.
It would be better to just leave the drunk alone to hit his head on the toilet bowl and have him cut his eyebrow on the edge. Let the drunk die if that is what it takes for you not to tell him he was a piece of shit when he sobers up.
People also have a habit of quoting the drunk of the stuff he said when he was obviously inebriated. Others would argue that a drunk is very honest and his subconscious thoughts are either fully realized or merely uttered for the world to hear. This is not always true. There have been studies on it and mostly what drunks say are simply drunk talk. Drunken talk is never associated with fact or truth.
I do not like taking care of pukey drunks but if I like the person enough, yes, I do put up with the s**t. Barf smells awful (though I saw somewhere that is one of the smells in a combination of a certain scent in perfumes). I put up with the s**t and I do not hold it against him. I tell him about what he does not remember without a trace of mockery because it is out of pure concern. I certainly will not bother if it is not of genuine concern. Genuine concern translating to not being held against the person.
Now I am being punished for being constantly drinking to death. I am not allowed anything alcoholic while someone on his second bottle is sitting next to me. Of course, he said, he never said I cannot have a bottle and he offered his but come on. If I took the bottle, it will be yet another thing against me. Let me reiterate the point at hand: it is pointless to drink if you are not crawling to a cab to get home. The best people can do is watch, enjoy the show for a future story to laugh about, not something to get pissed off for.
Most of you readers think I have a problem. Read through the post again and actually understand what it means.